#EmpathProbs We Feel Too Much & Always Think We're to Blame For Others Poor Behavior Has life ever tapped you on the shoulder and said, "Boo?” Have you ever woken up from self imposed isolation only to realize how comfortable and complacent you’ve grown? Do we, as humans, enjoy the life that we’ve given ourselves, [...]
Dear Woman, When people walk out of your life, LET THEM GO. I'll put this plainly and it may sound harsh, but maybe it'll wake you up. Stop giving time and attention to someone who doesn't want you. If a person cares for you, they stick around. They try. They put in the time and [...]
Love requires patience, communication (verbal and non verbal), tenacity, and fidelity. It's showing up every day and choosing to love a person, not in spite of, but because of his/her quirks, faults, and foibles.
I made some poor decisions on my way to okay because I didn't know that I wasn't healing. I tried to fast forward everything and convinced myself I was ready, when I wasn't even close to the starting line. Once my wounds were thick scar tissue healed clean, I realized how wrong I'd been. I [...]
It's a "changes are a'comin'" type day and I'm not the best at implementing change even when it's sorely needed. Nor am I good at talking about it because that involves intimacy & vulnerability both of which scare the shit out of me. Big time. There are few people to whom I talk with about my "real, [...]
I watched a movie Sunday that said pretty much the same thing. It was called “He’s Just Not That Into You.” In the past I felt that if I loved someone deeply, with every fiber of my being, they would automatically love me back. Why wouldn’t they? Why couldn’t I love enough for both of [...]