15 things I’ve Learned About Life & Love While Separated

Things I've learned in the past 387 days that may help someone else not go through this.    Never take your spouse's loyalty or the sacredness of your marriage vows for granted. When you stop focusing on others, on what they should or shouldn't be doing, analyzing motivations and actions, you have more time to [...]


Inaction Is An Action

Most people just want effort, yeah? They want someone who's willing to do what it takes.   Inaction is an action. Indecision is a decision  Both show a pretty big lack of care and effort. Remember ladies and gents, if he/she cared and wanted to be with you, he/she would do whatever it took.. Stop [...]

The Backburner

My heart hurts. My soul is lonely. I feel as though I am being torn in half. I want to go back home to my family and lick my wounds. But, if I do that, wouldn't I then be just as selfish as he is? I would be uprooting my children from all that they [...]