Change (verb): To make or become different Change (noun): The act or instance of making or becoming different. People often use the phrase "Fake it till You Make it" when talking about overcoming heartbreak. While I understand the concept, I've never really been one to fake anything. I never saw a point to pretending. I always dealt with [...]
It's the broken habits that make this separation and final end so difficult. It's the mundane, humdrum of every day life with your significant other that you miss the most after a break up or divorce. At least that's how its been for me. It's the little things that happened between us throughout the day [...]
This is what letting go means to me. 1. Letting go means I trust you to make decisions for you. And I'll make decisions for me. It means I know what a wonderful person I am and I know what I deserve so I won't settle. It also means I won't accept less than what [...]
Yesterday was a good day. Today, not so much. Yesterday, I accepted that things didn't work out between us. Yesterday, I accepted that it was time for me to stop fighting for someone who doesn't want to be fought for and to get on with life. Yesterday, I felt okay. Today, my brain wonders where [...]
I apologize to those of you who have had to put up with my startling emotional changes in the past couple of months. The stages of grief are a very real thing and right now I'm at the acceptance part, but that could change at any time. Seriously. I keep cycling between denial and [...]
From things I read and words people say, society seems to think forgiving is a weakness. I completely disagree. A forgiving heart is stronger than holding all of that anger and hurt inside. It only weakens a person to keep it. Being unable to forgive shows a lack of true understanding of the complexities [...]
One day of silence down, a gazillion more to go. Actually, I guess it would be 2 days. I haven't emailed him whatever silly thought pops in my head since Friday. But... I haven't physically spoken to him or heard his voice since the day before Fathers Day.