Changes are A’comin’

It's a "changes are a'comin'" type day and I'm not the best at implementing change even when it's sorely needed. Nor am I good at talking about it because that involves intimacy & vulnerability both of which scare the shit out of me. Big time. There are few people to whom I talk with about my "real, [...]

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Leaving Was The Nicest Thing He Ever Did For Me

I watched a movie Sunday that said pretty much the same thing. It was called “He’s Just Not That Into You.” In the past I felt that if I loved someone deeply, with every fiber of my being, they would automatically love me back. Why wouldn’t they? Why couldn’t I love enough for both of [...]

Why Change is a Good Thing (Maybe)

Change (verb): To make or become different Change (noun): The act or instance of making or becoming different. People often use the phrase "Fake it till You Make it" when talking about overcoming heartbreak. While I understand the concept, I've never really been one to fake anything. I never saw a point to pretending. I always dealt with [...]

It’s The Everyday Things I Miss The Most

It's the broken habits that make this separation and final end so difficult. It's the mundane, humdrum of every day life with your significant other that you miss the most after a break up or divorce. At least that's how its been for me. It's the little things that happened between us throughout the day [...]